A pastor in New York shocked a church congregation by announcing that he would be transitioning to a woman and would now use she/her pronouns.

Wearing a rainbow stole, Reverend Phil Phaneuf told his congregation at North Chili United Methodist Church that he was undergoing a gender transition.

The 51-year-old said during the service: “I get to announce with joy that I am transitioning. I am affirming and saying to all of you that I am transgender.

“The best way to put this is that I'm not becoming a woman; I'm giving up pretending to be a man.”

The announcement went viral online, sparking widespread debate and mixed reactions from the congregation.

This follows the controversial decision in May 2024 by the General Conference—the highest legislative body of the UMC—to remove bans on the ordination of LGBTQ+ clergy members.

While Phaneuf says the UMC is “absolutely” supportive, his parents do not share the same view.

“Are my parents okay with this? Absolutely not,” Phaneuf said.

“They texted me this morning and asked me to tell you all that they do not support me.”

He added: “They have chosen their convictions and their beliefs over supporting their child.”

Phaneuf said the church has been “very affirming” since the announcement and that their commitment to Jesus Christ and ministry will remain unchanged.